You’re so pretty, I’m surprised someone hasn’t taken you off the market!(aka, "Why are you single: The Remix)This is one of those backhanded compliments that really has no response. As a Plus-Size Princess, I often wonder if the guys asking me out have dated big girls before (not that it matters, but I do wonder), and I’ve learned that the answer is rarely helpful.Living in a culture that defines my body as unhealthy, a problem, ugly, unhygienic, and unworthy of love makes it that much harder to find a potential partner to value all of me.
Should I say, “Well, I don’t hook up right away, so most guys get bored with me, and that’s why I’m single!
Regardless, we still want that promise because it gives us courage to give ourselves to another without reservations.
You may not be able to keep that promise, but you can keep the promise to do your best to be an amazing life partner. If you’re thinking about tying the knot then be sure that your future life partner to-be can honestly answer these questions to your liking: People seem to feel this is a question that doesn’t especially need answering.
So here is a small manual, find out what it’s all that you can ask, and so it is better to know at the very beginning of your friendship.
Of course, ask these questions and be moderate to your girlfriend, do not make her feel like she is under police investigation.